I have reached out to Lousy to find out updates on what he did with my children for the holiday...who they were with, what their gifts were, what the schedule and routine were like...I get no response. He does not reply to e-mails or voice mail. Our court ordered "parent coordinator" has proven to be costly, inconvenient, and completely ineffective. My kids came home all out of whack...not sleeping, aggressive, kinda wild. It has taken me my whole half of the vacation to get them settled back down. Naps, routine, structure....the "weekend dad" as I understand it just throws all of that to the wind, and does whatever he wants. Coupled with an extreme case of being lousy, and an extended visit, my little ones are off kilter. Lucky me gets to pay the price. Thanks Lousy!!
No lawyer, therapist, family member, or priest can get through to a lousy. They treat you like dirt no matter how nice you are....did I mention that his parting words when he took my children for Christmas break were..."I'm gonna take custody from you....." Yeah, right....he is about as stable as a weeble wobble.