We hope that everyone gets it by now...sometimes Lousy is just plain Lousy. End of story. Move on.

This book is amazing!!! All Lousy Spouse survivors with kids must own this!! Order now!! - ellen

Just because your pearls are real, and your towels are monogrammed does not mean lousy-ness can't happen to you, sister! - ellen

I was such a dummy, I did not know this book was out there....ellen

My lousy to a T! - ellen

A simple, comforting story for the most tender victims of a family break up, the children. 

This was recommended by my therapist. I did not get here, because too much damage had been done by my LS.- ellen

Remember, your home is your children's haven and safe place. Make it as comfortable and happy as you can for them, they are going through a lot.  - ellen

Small steps and easy to read. Great for when you are having concentration issues. - ellen

In case you care enough to examine these deeply flawed humans...- ellen

This is practically my story verbatim. Painful but accurate. - ellen

Apparently, we have to find good things to say to our children about Lousy. Read this book, and then think of some things about Lousy that don't make your skin crawl: "He likes pizza!" "Her favorite color is yellow!" and then share those messages with your children, keep the dialogue open. - ellen

This writer's team reached out to LousySpouse, so we thought we'd giver her a shout out. We can't say we've read it, but it sure fits our list...

The title says it all. - ellen

It's been a while for most lousy spouse survivors....getting back in the game....- ellen

This was helpful for me to identify the abusive patterns that my LS had been engaging in. - ellen

This book helped me understand how my LS had fooled so many for so long in his office as he conducted an affair with his subordinate. - ellen

My mother loves this book, and of course brought me a copy. - ellen

This is one of the most accurate descriptions of the overwhelmingness of being a mother to young children with an inattentive husband. -ellen

I know, I know - old habits die hard.....- ellen

A sweet and hopeful LA story about divorce and rebirth! - ellen

Good manners for children are even more essential now, given the complexity of the situations they must deal with. Good manners will make life easier and more pleasant for them, no matter how rude lousy is.  - ellen

This is handy when becoming a single parent. Kids need boundaries, limits and consequences. Make sure they find them at home so they don't go looking elsewhere to 'test limits' as they get older. Try to get Lousy to get a copy too to create a consistent message for your children. - ellen

Our version of a fairy tale: a $15 million settlement (from cheating first husband), a brilliant and wildly successful new business, a loving and rich second husband, and 2 healthy babies with him... - ellen

Organizing your home will help you feel some sense of control, and make functioning easier during a stressful time. - ellen